August 1st, 2011

New Relationship advice

Sometimes when you are just starting to date many feelings come to light. You might be shy, nervous, not know how to approach a girl or a guy, and even do something silly during your first date. Doing something silly or funny during the date is not nearly worse than getting a relationship advice from someone who doesn’t know much about relationships. You do want to avoid getting dating relationship advice from someone of a lesser experience than yours. We all have many friends and family members that like to barge into our lives, give us their opinions, their strategy and ways to play “the game”. It seems at the most important times of our lives, everyone around us seem to know more about the subject matter than we do ourselves. Before asking anyone of their opinion, evaluate the person and ask yourself “is this person an expert on the issue”, “how would they know this”, “is this an unbiased advice”?. After you had asked yourself these types of questions you can then filter out the noise in the new relationship advicethat you have been getting. Remember your inner self, has many answers to the questions that might rise when it comes to dating, and relationships. Take the time to explore and understand yourself, what are your morals and ideas about healthy relationships, about true love, and about starting a new relationship. We often rely on someone else and not the intelligent side that lives within us, if we were ought to bring this out more often, we not only can be happy with our own decisions, but we might perhaps find true love. If you do however require an unbiased confidential advice, post your question on Button Status and you will get a quick response.

June 12th, 2011

Bring out the one that can love!

There are parts of us that dream and want to be happy and perhaps find “true love,” some may believe and think of this more than others. Not many actually think about bringing this feeling out more often, those who do, are happier and more successful when it comes to relationships. You too can become happier and fill your life with meaningful moments such as love. You can start by paying attention to how your mind reacts to certain things. This way you become your true self or the observer of your mind’s thoughts and reactions. Instead of reacting like you used to, you take one step back and examine how your mind reacts. By being completely aware of this you will stop causing yourself and others pain which comes from overreacting, over-thinking and stress. For example: Someone made a comment about your shoes “wow, those are ugly!” Your mind’s first reaction might be a feeling of embarrassment, which might follow with a want to counter attack by making fun of the person back. Here is the challenge: what you need to do is to try not to attach yourself to your initial reactions to things, but rather realize the fact that they are there, and that you are completely aware of them. Do not judge these first reactions, they are not bad or good, they are just there, you just make a choice not to be part of those reactions. The person in you that realizes this is the true self. Now practice and learn how to bring your true self out more often in your daily life. This true self is the one that has the ability to love. We will talk about true self and how it can be directed towards love in the upcoming posts.

ps. people wearing Looking For Love buttons are those dreamers and believers.

February 9th, 2011

Just received an email from a special friend , here he is rocking his crush button.

January 15, 2011

Welcome to Button status blog! We hope you find our site, the buttons and the idea behind Button Status interesting and refreshing . In the blog we will discuss different topics on Love. Relationship advice, Love quotes, Love sayings, and romantic ideas can be found here. Hopefully by understanding topics such as these we can understand ourselves and move in direction in life that would bring us more happiness and maybe bring us closer to finding our True Love. So comment, suggest and share with us

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